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PART ONE FUNDAMENTAL TECHNIQUES IN HANDLING PEOPLE
1 ¡°IF YOU WANT TO GATHER HONEY, DON'T KICK OVER THE BEEHIVE"
2 THE BIG SECRET OF DEALING WITH PEOPLE
3 "HE WHO CAN DO THIS HAS THE WHOLE WORLD WITH HIM. HE WHO CANNOT WALKS A LONELY WAY."
PART TWO SIX WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU
1 DO THIS AND YOU'LL BE WELCOME ANYWHERE
2 A SIMPLE WAY TO MAKE A GOOD IMPRESSION
3 IF YOU DON'T DO THIS YOU ARE HEADED FOR TROUBLE
4 AN EASY WAY TO BECOME A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST
5 HOW TO INTEREST PEOPLE
6 HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU INSTANTLY
PART THREE TWELVE WAYS TO WIN PROPLE TO YOUR WAY OF THINKING
1 YOU CAN'T WIN AN ARGUMENT
2 A SURE WAY OF MAKING ENEMIES--AND HOW TO AVOID IT
3 IF YOU'RE WRONG, ADMIT IT
4 THE HIGH ROAD TO A MAN'S REASON
5 THE SECRET OF SOCRATES
6 THE SAFETY VALVE IN HANDLING COMPLAINTS
7 HOW TO GET CO-OPERATION
8 A FORMULA THAT WILL WORK WONDERS FOR YOU
9 WHAT EVERYBODY WANTS
10 AN APPEAL THAT EVERYBODY LIKES
11 THE MOVIES DO IT. RADIO DOES IT. WHY DON¡¯T YOU DO IT?
12 WHEN NOTHING ELSE WORKS, TRY THIS
PART FOUR NINE WAYS TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENSE OR AROUSING RESENTMENT
1 IF YOU MUST FIND FAULT, THIS IS THE WAY TO BEGIN
2 HOW TO CRITICIZE--AND NOT BE HATED FOR IT
3 TALK ABOUT YOUR OWN MISTAKES FIRST
4 NO ONE LIKES TO TAKE ORDERS
5 LET THE OTHER MAN SAVE HIS FACE
6 HOW TO SPUR PEOPLE ON TO SUCCESS
7 GIVE A DOG A GOOD NAME
8 MAKE THE FAULT SEEM EASY TO CORRECT
9 MAKING PEOPLE GLAD TO DO WHAT YOU WANT
PART FIVE Letters That Produced Miraculous Results
PART SIX SEVEN RULES FOR MAKING YOUR HOME LIFE HAPPIER
1 HOW TO DIG YOUR MARITAL GRAVE IN THE QUICKEST POSSIBLE WAY
2 LOVE AND LET LIVE
3 DO THIS AND YOU'LL BE LOOKING UP THE TIME-TABLES TO RENO
4 A QUICK WAY TO MAKE EVERYBODY HAPPY
5 THEY MEAN SO MUCH TO A WOMAN
6 IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY, DON'T NEGLECT THIS ONE
7 DON'T BE A "MARRIAGE ILLITERATE"